HOW YOU HONK YOUR HORN SAYS A LOT ABOUT YOU
Melissa Katz
McGavin, Boyce, Bardot, Thorsen & Katz
Let’s be honest: how you use your car horn probably says more
about your state of mind than you’d like to admit.
You’re at a red light. It turns green. The car in front of you
doesn’t budge. Now you’re faced with a choice and it’s not just about traffic
etiquette. It’s a mini personality test in real time.
Do you go for the polite beep-beep a soft nudge that says, “Hey
there, just a friendly reminder, we’re good to go”?
Or do you let your stress take the wheel?
You’re already wound up. Impatience is practically seeping through
your skin. The light turns green, and the driver ahead delays - longer than
what most of us would consider prudent (because yes, we all know that green is
not an unqualified command to floor it). But in your present state, you don’t
pause. You don’t reflect. You go full horn. An all-caps “GO!” screamed in
decibels. It’s the driving equivalent of rage-texting.
And then, just like that, you realize what you’ve done.
There’s a flicker of chagrin, a little embarrassment at this very
public display of your internal pressure cooker. It’s not your proudest moment.
Compare that to the version of you who waits patiently. Who maybe
gives a gentle beep-beep if needed. The one who recognizes that the person in
front of you might just be distracted, not malicious. The difference between
those two horn responses is an oddly accurate barometer of how you’re doing.
So keep yourself in check. Because the truth is, we don’t just
drive our car, we project ourselves through them. Our stress, our irritation,
our mood. That horn is often our first, rawest reaction.
A friendly beep usually gets a wave. A smile. A nod of thanks.
The angry honk? At best, a scowl. At worst, a flipped bird or a
retaliatory brake-check. And in today’s world filled with emotionally frayed,
hyper-reactive, and occasionally armed drivers - that’s not a risk worth
taking.
This isn’t just about driving. It is about who you are when
no one’s watching. If you can pause, breathe, and choose kindness when you're
behind the wheel, you're not just being a better driver. You're being a better
human.
So the next time you're tempted to honk your frustration into the
universe, ask yourself: is this a beep beep moment… or a deep breath one? If
the latter - pause and reset to beep beep mode.
